Support Queer Media
For Them & Autostraddle exist to fill the gap in a world that overlooks queer and trans needs, offering products and media that honor expansive identities and celebrate authentic self-expression.
Membership Tiers
The For Them x Autostraddle Membership is a space built by and for queer and trans folks — offering ad-free access to exclusive content, direct advice from our all-queer team, 30% off gender-expansive products, early access to limited drops, and more. You’ll help shape future products and connect with a community that celebrates your full, authentic self.
Membership Tiers
How It Works
Step 1
Choose Your Tier
Pick the level that suits you—support us, get exclusive perks and deeper access.
Step 2
Enjoy Community & Perks
Unlock members‑only content, early access, discounts, and product development.
Step 3
Engage & Grow
Pick the level that suits you—support us, get exclusive perks and deeper access.
Where do member dollars go?
Membership Dollars Go Towards Paying Our Queer And Trans Team To:
- Edit and publish everything from dating advice to news you can trust to comics by queer artists to TV and Film reviews, queer celebrity gossip, and more!
- Manage and grow our membership program and social media presence.
- Design and illustrate everything you see here and all around you.
- Organize kickass virtual and IRL events for our community
- Develop nimble, people-first operational systems to enable all of the above!
Members Only Products
Our Partners
humanoid
15% Off
humanoid is more than a brand—it’s a home for rebels, artists, and dreamers who believe in a future where everyone is free to define themselves, their way. We make skinwear : a fusion of makeup, temporary tattoos, and fashion that turns your whole body into a canvas for truly limitless self-expression. However bold, subtle, or humanoid you want to be, you’re invited.
*Gift cards excluded. One-time use per customer. Cannot be combined with other offers.
Hairrari
20% Off
Hairrari is a woman, immigrant and queer-owned gender-neutral barbershop with locations in New York City and Los Angeles. Short hair, long hair, color - we do it all. Explore our services, custom product line, and apparel in-store and online. 20% OFF all Hairrari haircare, skincare and apparel.
Dame Products
20% Off
Dame is redefining wellness with pleasure-forward products researched, developed, and designed by women—offering toys and essentials for before, after, and every moment in between.
Kirrin Finch
15% Off
Kirrin Finch is a conscientious clothing company, founded by Brooklyn-based couple Laura Moffat and Kelly Sanders Moffat, that meets the growing demand for gender-defying fashion by creating menswear-inspired apparel designed to fit a range of female and non-binary bodies.
Frequently asked Questions
FAQs
How do I cancel/upgrade/downgrade my membership?
To upgrade or downgrade your membership, please visit www.forthem.com or www.autostraddle.com either while signed in or and sign in when prompted. Once logged in, you'll find your membership area in the top right-hand corner of the page. Once you’re in the Member Portal, you can manage your subscription on the home page or the “Your account” page.
I’m a legacy member and cannot find where or how to manage my membership.
To manage your membership as a legacy member, please email team@forthem.comwith your request (e.g. “Cancel my membership” or “Assist me in upgrading my membership”) and one of our team members will be in touch within 48 hours.
How do I sign up for the newsletter(s)?
Log in to www.forthem.com or www.autostraddle.com (if you don't have an account yet you can create one on the sign-in screen), then while logged in go to Your Account/My Profile > then click NEWSLETTERS on the left hand side > toggle on/off the different newsletters that you'd like to receive!
I’m not seeing my AF+ Membership discount applied on my order.
Note: the only AF+ Members who receive a 30% discount on all orders are AF+ All Access and AF+ Support Members. AF+ Media Members do not receive product perks.
- First, make sure you’re logged in to your membership using the email address that you used to purchase the membership.
- Second, make sure you’re either an AF+ All Access or AF+ Support member.
Once you’ve done the above, please continue all the way through the checkout process until it’s time to add payment method and checkout. See if the discount is applied on the checkout page where your total is calculated. If it’s still not reflecting your discount, please reach out to team@forthem.com.
I’m an AF+ Member but I cannot read the AF+ content on Autostraddle.com.
First, make sure you’re logged in to your membership using the email address that you used to purchase the membership. Double check that you’re using the correct email address, especially if you’re a long-time member/use a different email address for your billing.
If you still have trouble, your membership may not be currently active. Let us know any email addresses that could be associated with your membership and we’ll look into it for you.
I bought an AF+ Membership but have not yet created an account
New members must first create a new account with their email address to start accessing and enjoying their perks. To do this, visit either www.autostraddle.com or www.forthem.com and find the SIGN IN button towards the top right hand corner of the page. On the SIGN IN screen, click CREATE NEW ACCOUNT and enter in the email address used to purchase your membership. Create a password, and then finish registration. You’ll then be redirected to sign in with your new credentials.
Founded in 2009, Autostraddle is the internet’s most popular, and oldest independently-owned, website for LGBTQIA+ humans (and their friends). Autostraddle provides exposure for queer art — films, books, movies, television — often overlooked or undervalued by the mainstream.
Membership Tiers
The For Them x Autostraddle Membership is a space built by and for queer and trans folks — offering ad-free access to exclusive content, direct advice from our all-queer team, 30% off gender-expansive products, early access to limited drops, and more. You’ll help shape future products and connect with a community that celebrates your full, authentic self.
Media
Get access to exclusive newsletters, read Autostraddle ad-free, access exclusive Members-Only Content, and get invited to watch parties!
All Access
Get everything from the Media Membership plus access to Members-Only Product Drops, perks from our partners, and 30% off everything at For Them. When you select the quarterly or annual plan, you’ll also get a Quarterly Zine delivered!
Support
Get everything from the Media and All Access Memberships plus support gender-affirming product donations and help protect queer journalism. When you select the quarterly or annual plan, you’ll also get a Quarterly Zine delivered!
